I had never been able to deep throat, and it never really bothered
me since the relationship that I‘ve been in largely doesn’t require
it!
However, a post a couple of months ago about the subject made me
think about it again, and that, combined with another series of
events led me to try my hand at learning how to do it. I spent some
time researching the subject and found that there is relatively
little in the way of really decent information about it. I also
consulted with a couple of other “experts” I know that are capable
of doing this kind of stuff! lol
Anyway, I am happy to report that it is indeed possible to learn how
to deep throat if you are one of the unfortunate souls that was born
with a gag reflex! Lol It just takes time, and patience. A lot of
patience! ;-)
DISCLAIMER
Be careful when you first start trying this stuff. You *must* take
this information and proceed *slowly* to keep from hurting your
throat or tripping your gag reflex and vomiting! :-O Just be careful
and take your time. It has taken me two months to go through this
and I am still working on it!!!
Required & Suggested Items
You will need something to deep throat. I *highly* recommend a
flexible, near-lifelike dildo such as this one that I used. If you
can get one that has the “realistic skin” or “realistic feel,” it
will make the practice much more….realistic for you! The dildo will
more or less act like a real cock will when you try to DT it. The
length you’d need is up to you. I’d suggest no less than 6 inches –
the one I used is a little over 8 inches. The average mouth is about
3.5 inches deep, and the average penis length is about 5.5 inches,
so even with a 6 inch dildo, you should be okay. I wanted to make
sure I could handle anything that came my way, though, and elected
to go with a longer one. :-P
You can use a peeled banana or hot dog wiener BUT you must be
careful not to let it break off and get lodged in your throat! If a
piece does break off, you will swallow it, but you’ll end up
coughing and hacking all over the place and probably end your little
practice session.
Of course, if you have a live penis with an owner willing to let you
spend all kinds of time practicing, then so much the better!
Lubrication: You must make sure your dildo is lubricated before you
try to push it into the back of your throat. I use saliva – you just
have to spend a lot of time with it in your mouth to get it all
juiced up. Most lubes like AstroGlide are edible and are safe for
ingestion if you want to use those (and they have little noticeable
taste). Everyone suggested I stay away from flavored lubes because
they make you want to swallow while you have the dildo in your
mouth, causing your tongue to rub off the lube, etc. One
recommendation was to use Albolene (that’s right, the makeup
remover. Get it at Walgreens.). Apparently that is pretty popular
with the adult industry, since it becomes pretty much invisible when
it is applied to………whatever. lol
Throat Spray: Buy some aerosol throat spray – the kind you’d use if
you had a sore throat. You can spray this into the back of your
throat and it will deaden it somewhat. This will make things a
little easier as well.
The Gag Reflex
The “gag reflex” is your throat’s way to trying to force something
down it when you swallow. You encounter problems when whatever you
are sticking in your throat won’t cooperate and go on down! The
little gag mechanism starts freaking out and that’s when you get the
spastic feeling and………other problems. The biggest obstacle to
learning how to DT is to defeat this.
Positions
The best position for practicing DT technique is any position where
you can lean your head back and make your throat straight. I have
been doing it by lying on my back on my bed, with my head hanging
backwards over the edge. You can also sit in a chair, or on a couch,
with your head leaning back as well. It really doesn’t matter how
you position yourself for practicing, so long as you can get your
throat as straight as possible.
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The best
position for deep throating.
Note the mouth and throat cavity
are aligned in a straight line.
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Practicing
You learn to overcome your gag reflex by going down on the dildo as
far as you can, relaxing the back of your mouth/entrance to your
throat, and taking it until you just feel the beginning of that gag,
and holding it there until the feeling subsides. This may take a
minute or two. If it doesn’t go away, withdraw the dildo and try
again after a minute or two of rest. Try it again, this time going a
little further if you can, and repeat. As I said, this may take some
time and practice and you won’t end up after your first session
being able to DT an 8-inch dick. As you’re holding the dildo in your
throat, don’t forget to keep breathing! The natural tendency is to
hold your breath while you do this and, of course, that will begin
to suck after a minute or two. ;-)
As you move the dildo back further into your throat, flatten the
back of your tongue just as you would when the doctor asks you to go
“aahhhh” when he’s examining your throat. This will cause your
tongue to push out, cause the back of your mouth to open wider, and
will allow you to help counter your gag reflex as well. Slide the
dildo along the top of your tongue. Hopefully, you’re using the
recommended dildo or something that is relatively flexible, and it
will follow the contour of your throat. Again, when you feel the
urge to gag, pause for a few seconds and let your body overcome
that, and then press forward.
At some point (hopefully), you’ll get the dildo far enough back that
it will actually get to the entrance of your throat. At this point,
you will probably feel some resistance. Try using your tongue to
help pull the dildo into your throat, almost as if you were trying
to swallow. Extend your tongue a little bit and pull it back in,
taking the dildo with it. You’ll also need to try to concentrate on
relaxing your throat itself to allow the dildo to actually get into
your throat. Once you get it that far, begin practicing taking it
that deep, pulling it back out, and going back down on it that deep
again, etc – just as if you were fucking your own face with the
dildo. Once you get the hang of this, then you’ll be ready to move
on to a real cock!
Another note on breath control: DON’T take a deep breath before you
push the dildo/penis back into your throat. Taking in a deep breath
decreases the amount of penis (or w/e) that you can take into your
throat, believe it or not. Breathe normally, and stop just before
the dildo actually goes into your throat and you begin the
swallowing motions with your tongue.
The Real Deal
At this point, you’re going to want to try deep throating your boy’s
live penis. Make *sure* he understands the first few times you do
this, you might be gagging and coughing and that, the more he
cooperates with you on the front end, the better it will be for him
in the long run. :twisted:
My suggestion is to use the face-up, prone position on the bed, with
your head hanging over the edge for your first time with your boy.
Spend a little bit of time lubing up his cock with spit (i.e., suck
his dick normally for a little bit first), and make sure you get a
*lot* of saliva on it. Or, if you prefer, you can apply whatever
lube you’ve been using to it, whatever works best for you. Just get
on the bed, open your mouth, and let him start to slide his cock
into your mouth. You will need to work out with him on the front end
how you want to communicate about how far he can go and how you will
control how far he goes in. I would suggest that you grab his hips
and use your hands to pull him into your throat and push him out for
the first few times you try it.
After a few times like this, and if you’re lucky enough (or perhaps
I should say, if *he’s* lucky enough) that you can take his entire
cock into your mouth, with him bottoming out on your face, then you
may get to the point where you can literally let him fuck your face.
Just make sure he understands that he can’t do it like it was your
pussy – at least, not initially. If he’s longer than your practice
dildo, then you will continue your practicing with his dick, keeping
everything else above in mind.
The saliva in the back of your throat is somewhat thicker than what
you have in the front of it. As your boy’s cock pulls out of your
mouth, you’ll notice the thicker spit dribbling off of it and
forming those little spit trails back to your mouth. Many guys
really get off on seeing this, so don’t be concerned about the fact
that it is happening.
Another position you can use is the 69 position (lying down or
standing if the two of you can do that). Any position where you can
match the curve of his cock with the curve of your throat will work
(your throat curves down, and his penis probably curves up, so keep
that in mind.). If you’re fortunate enough to have a guy who doesn’t
get bone hard and his dick remains somewhat flexible, then you can
do DT from any position, of course.
As with any BJ, make sure your boy lets you know when he’s getting
ready to blow. One of the real advantages of deep throating is that
you can push his cock deep into your throat while he cums, allowing
the cum to shoot right down your throat. (Again, this will probably
take some getting used to). Wag your tongue back and forth across
his dick while he’s cumming. This, combined with the swallowing
motion made by your throat will provide the continuous sensation
needed to ensure his orgasm is complete. If you’re like me, you can
feel it in his cock when he’s getting ready to cum, and you’ll be
able to recognize this while you’re throat-fucking him as well.
As you become more comfortable with everything, you can eventually
let him take the lead in deciding how deep to go. This requires a
great deal of trust, though. A lot of guys have problems controlling
how deep they go when they start cumming, and it is a natural
tendency to want to shove it as deep as possible when that happens,
so be prepared for that. You can also begin to add other things to
the mix while you’re going down on him – like playing with his nuts,
sticking a finger in his ass (if he’s up for that), etc.
The more you practice and try this, the easier it will become for
you. I read one good analogy of someone putting contacts in for the
first time. You flinch and blink a lot the first few times you do
it, but eventually, you get to the point where it becomes second
nature to put them in and take them out. Deep throating is pretty
much the same way as I understand it. Only time will tell!
Readers have left 3 comments.  2. UntitledPeter Mare, UnregisteredI have done this with my guy friend, worked great at first but I still gag a little and return fluid as he pulls his penis out of my throat which he loves to see spill onto my face,the only thing that sometimes bothers me is he is almost 10"s long and likes to keep it in my throat way past the time for when I need to gasp for air, I try but can not he is f@#king my throat, but when we get it going real good, nothing beats the feeling of him cumming deep in my throat 3. UntitledGuest User, Unregistered Caitlin-Thanks for the great article!
You mention the dildo you used for practice...can you provide a link?
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I've tried this with my bf and he seemed to realy enjoy it , compared to others ways we have tried it!!
