Alfred Kinsey was one of the first researchers to openly study human
sexuality. Beginning in the late 1930s at Indiana State University, he
conducted a wide range of research about a variety of topics related
to the matter, and published several important books on the subject.
Some of his most influential work was directed at the
subject of sexual orientation.
This article is not an examination or treatise on the subject of
bisexuality or homo/heterosexuality, but is merely a summary of
Kinsey's research and theories on the subject. Kinsey's theory
serves as a relatively simple platform against which to discuss the
subject of bisexuality within the context of sexual orientation in
general.
The Meaning of "Bisexuality"
What exactly does the term "bisexual" mean? There are two
general lines of thought for this. One is that someone has to
be capable of forming emotional relationships with either sex.
In this interpretation, the fact that one can have sex with either
sex means nothing if there is no capacity for an actual
"relationship." This philosophy neglects the ability to have
sex with members of either gender, however, and is therefore flawed
because it neglects
an entire component of someone's sexual identity.
The more common lay description of a bisexual is "anyone who has, could/can
have or has had sex with people of both genders." This
reflects the understanding that a person's sexuality is defined, at its
core, by the very nature of how their sexuality manifests itself.
If you can have sex with people of both sexes, you are, by
definition, bisexual. Someone who believes they can, or is
curious as to what it would be like to have sex with someone of the
same sex (and has a general proclivity for sex with members of the
opposite sex) are said to be "bi-curious." Once acted upon, a
bi-curious person will be able to ascertain whether or not they are
truly bisexual.
Bisexuality as defined by Kinsey
Kinsey collected detailed sexual histories of thousands of people in
the late 1930s and early 1940s. Upon evaluating these
histories, he found that an astonishing number of males and females
had sexual practices that defied what was perceived as the "norm."
This included the fact that the practice of homosexuality was much
more widespread than anyone had imagined at that point in time.
Kinsey's research demonstrated to him that a minority of the
population was exclusively heterosexual or homosexual, and that the
vast majority were bisexual to one extent or the other (a philosophy
that was originally espoused by Sigmund Freud to a great extent,
though for a different set of reasons.) Kinsey defined
bisexuality as a measure of a number of variables that might
influence sexual orientation: sexual attractions, fantasies,
behaviors, emotions, and self-identification among others.
For instance, if you found some people of the same sex as you
"attractive" or "good looking" you were not exclusively
heterosexual as he saw it. If you understand this concept, then you can see
why so few people can be said to be "exclusively" of one orientation
or the other, and why the numbers of such people are relatively
small
in Kinsey's eyes.
Kinsey also believed that an individual's sexual orientation exists
along a continuum as they move through time. For example,
someone may feel that they are exclusively heterosexual for a period
of time, and find themselves in a set of circumstances next year
that leads them to find someone of the same sex attractive in such
as manner that it elicits a sexual response to one degree or
another. At that moment, according to Kinsey, the person loses
their "heterosexual exclusively" identity, and becomes bisexual to
an extent. The person may or may not elect to act upon those
feelings, but that has no relevance to their actual position on the
continuum.
My personal experience has shown that this is very demonstrable with
females. I have been able to convince women who've never given
a prior thought to having a sexual relationship with another woman
to actually have sex with another woman. Another good example
of this at work is the fact that many males
will marry and raise a family, only to "discover" their
homosexuality later in life. Many of the people who find
themselves in this situation report that they never had any
conscious thoughts of "being gay" in their younger years. This
would seem to indicate that Kinsey's continuum theory has some
validity as well.
Methodology Problems
Kinsey's findings relative to the prevalence of homosexuality in the
U. S. population are considered to be skewed by many people today.
Rather than using a random sample of subjects for his data
collection, he used prisoners and volunteers, for example.
Many researchers believe that those who volunteer for such studies
are more inclined to have a wider variety of sexual experiences and
may tend to exaggerate or inflate responses based on what they
believe the researchers want to hear. Despite this, his theories have not been disproven
(and, indeed, have been supported by other research), and are
generally considered valid even though the methods used to derive
them may have been flawed.
The Kinsey Scale
Alfred Kinsey developed his famous "Kinsey scale" as a result of his
research to characterize a person's sexual preference. It basically suggests that most people fall
somewhere between 0 (totally heterosexual) and 6 (totally
homosexual) on a sexual preference continuum. What Kinsey
suggested in designing this scale, was that "heterosexual" and
"homosexual" are not opposites, but rather two possible positions
along a continuum of sexual desire. One might be a 2 on the
scale (preferring hetero sex, but occasionally enjoying homo sex),
or a 4 (tending toward homo, but really liking both), or any other
number between 0 and 6 at any given point in time. And,
further, that one's position along the continuum was subject to
change, based on a variety of different factors.
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0
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Exclusively heterosexual
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1
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Predominantly heterosexual,
incidentally homosexual
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2
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Predominantly heterosexual,
but more than incidentally homosexual
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3
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Equally heterosexual and
homosexual
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4
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Predominantly homosexual, but
more than incidentally heterosexual
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5
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Predominantly homosexual, only
incidentally heterosexual
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6
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Exclusively homosexual
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Kinsey's Theory vs. Predetermined
Orientation
Many people believe that Kinsey's theory conflicts with the notion that
sexual orientation is biologically determined, or that, at a minimum,
calls into question the validity of such an argument. If you assume
that what is encoded in your DNA is the sole determinant of your sexual
orientation, then there obviously is some conflict between the two
theories. Most researchers today, however, believe that sexual
orientation is derived from a variety of factors, including genetics,
environmental influences (from the family, peers, society, etc.), and
other biological phenomena (hormonal shifts, etc.). Since genetics
would be the only hard-coded variant present, then, the two
philosophies are not incongruent with one another. Kinsey himself
believed that there was no evidence of a genetic predisposition towards
homo or heterosexuality.
Expansion of Kinsey's Theory
In 1978, psychologist Fritz Klein expanded on Kinsey's theory
somewhat. Without going into too much detail, he basically
restated the theory and posited that true bisexuality was
impossible to quantify in contemporary society. This is
basically the same idea that Kinsey had regarding the fact that
people change sexual identities across time, and expanded the
determinants used to identify one's sexual orientation - it was an
ongoing, dynamic process.
Klein also
developed the concept of "sequential bisexuality," or the concept
that bisexuals can be monogamously attached to one gender at a time.
This seems to conflict with the basic assumption about bisexuals in
that the stereotypical bisexual is one that engages in sexual
activity with people of both sexes in parallel. Though that
may happen, that is not a common occurrence.
Bisexuality gets associated with non-monogamy and group sex because
it is difficult to imagine a purely bisexual act that involves only
two people. Two guys together, even if they are bisexual,
engage in "homosexual sex." Likewise, a bisexual man and woman
together engage in "heterosexual sex." Bisexuality,
which is so hard to imagine within the terms of a standard
one-on-one sexual encounter, comes to represent and be represented
as "deviant" in the eyes of many who do not fully understand the
concepts involved.
There remains a great deal of conflict about sexual orientation in
general, and this is no different with the subject of bisexuality.
Kinsey's theories are accepted by most sexuality researchers, though not
all of them. Sexuality is just too complex of a
subject to be reduced to a one or two sentence characterization.
With that in mind, it should not be surprising that a subject as
complex as bisexuality would be hard to define as well.
What does this mean for me?
Many adolescents (and adults as well) go through stages where they question their sexual
orientation. This is a perfectly normal part of growing up, and
can cause a great deal of anxiety because they don't
want to be seen as "different." For many, they
will come quickly to the realization that they are either gay or
heterosexual. For others, however, not only will they take
longer to understand their sexual orientation, they may never find
themselves in a place where they can strictly define their sexual
orientation. Kinsey's theory helps you understand that what
you're experiencing is not at all uncommon, and, in fact, may be
much more "normal" than you might imagine.
Given the information above, you can begin to see that it is hard even for
scientists to fully understand the nature of sexual orientation.
It should come as no surprise then, that individuals would
have trouble rectifying all of the possibilities within their own
minds about what they're going through.
Though it may be hard
to do, try to resist the urge to label yourself as gay, straight, or
bisexual and learn to enjoy your sexuality in whatever manner it
comes to you. After all, the concept of "sexuality" is a social construct and
nothing more. Otherwise, you are just setting yourself up to be
conflicted unnecessarily, since there is literally nothing you can
do about how you feel.

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