Cunnilingus, or oral sex on a girl, is a relatively safe form of sex
play, and can be performed purely to provide an orgasm for the girl,
or as a prelude to sexual intercourse.
Many guys (and girls) get very anxious about going down on a girl
for the first time. What does it look like, what does it smell
like, what does it taste like, etc.? Like many other things,
individual preferences will vary from girl to girl. I have,
however, assembled this basic set of instructions on how to eat
pussy correctly. You can take this information, and use it on
your girl, and modify it to accommodate what gets her off. You
must learn what works for her, and adapt your technique to her in
order to keep her happy.
HOW TO EAT PUSSY
PLEASE - NEVER ever go straight to attacking the clit - that's a
sure path to hell for both of you. Start by working your way down
her luscious body, kissing and licking down her belly, past her
pierced bellybutton, stopping to flick her little...oh, um wait,
that's for me... :-P
Anyway, continue licking and kissing your way down to her inner
thighs. Kiss and lick gently across her pussy area, just brushing
against her pussy as you go by on your way to the other thigh. Then
*gently* lick the pussy area by running your tongue up from the
bottom to the top of her pussy - you'll probably lick the outer lips
first. Slowly work your way inside with your tongue. Start in the
center/middle of the pussy.
Then, lick from the vaginal opening up to the clit and back, along
the lips. Spread the outer lips with your fingers, and with a softly
pointed tongue, flick gently around the clit. You can move around a
little (or a lot if your tongue will hold up!), but always come back
to the clit. When working on the clit, start gently and work up the
intensity - some girls are extremely sensitive and if you work up to
what she can handle, then you'll be better off than if you bombard
that little fucker right off the bat.
As you work your intensity up, every once in a while back off, and
kiss her thighs again, then go back, starting in the center and head
back to the clit.
You'll eventually get to the point where you can move into some
serious pussy eating. While holding the inner and outer lips
together, run your tongue through them. You can pull the clit hood
back a little bit and gently suck on the clit - again, be careful
and start softly.
You can move to actual tongue-fucking - intercourse with the tongue.
Push your tongue as far into the vagina as you can, and bring it
back out - alternating the speed. You can do that and work your way
back to the clit - again, be careful and start softly. Some people
have said you can say the ABCs while you're sucking and carrying on!
LOL! I've never done that, but I suppose if you haven't achieved
success by this point, or if you want to try something different, go
for it.
If you want, while you are working on her, slowly insert a lubed
(wet) finger into her vagina and finger-fuck her pussy while you're
licking/sucking. In the absence of lube, stick your finger in your
mouth and coat it with saliva. If you're swift enough to know where
to find a girl's g-spot, then see if you can get to a point where
you can massage it while you're giving her head. If she can take it,
insert two or three fingers and carry on.
At some point, during all of this, she'll reach that point where she
starts screaming stuff like, "Oh, God, fuck me you son of a bitch -
fuck me with that hot, fucking tongue of yours" (or words that
roughly translate to that!). That's your cue that she's getting
ready to cum all over your face, and don't be surprised if you end
up in a headlock of sorts - BUT DON'T STOP or you WILL be banished
to Hell forthwith! Just keep concentrating on that clit until she
peaks, and then start slowing down and backing off while her orgasm
subsides, eventually backing out to kissing her thighs, etc.
Depending on her tastes, you may or may not need to wipe the girl
cum off your face before you go back up and kiss her on the lips.
Over time, you'll figure out what she likes best and what she
doesn't like - keep mental notes on that kind of shit - we don't
like guys/girls who don't learn from their mistakes.
Then there's the art of eating pussy while the girl is on her knees
kneeling down - and you cumming in from behind. This can be major
fun, too, and can lead to an interesting experience known as
rimming .
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Recommended Reading
The
Naked Truth About Sex: A Guide for Intelligent Sexual Choices
Roger Libby, 2006.
Dr. Libby authors this refreshingly
sex-positive book that gives teens and twentysomethings the hard
facts about physical intimacy. Without moralizing or judging, he encourages
them to develop a healthy, vibrant sexuality to be celebrated with
self-respect and consideration of others.
You can move to actual tongue-fucking - intercourse with the tongue.
Push your tongue as far into the vagina as you can, and bring it
back out - alternating the speed. You can do that and work your way
back to the clit - again, be careful and start softly. Some people
have said you can say the ABCs while you're sucking and carrying on!
LOL! I've never done that, but I suppose if you haven't achieved
success by this point, or if you want to try something different, go
for it. 