Caitlain's Corner

Basic Positions for Sex

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Basic Positions for Sex
Missionary Position
The 69 Position
Doggy Position
Cowgirl/Girl on Top
Reverse Cowgirl

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The Reverse Cowgirl Position

The Reverse Cowgirl position is my favorite for sex with a guy. It has the benefit of providing great stimulation to my G-Spot, and therefore ranks right up there at the top in my book!

HOW TO DO IT:

The guy lies on his back, with his legs generally together.

The girl sits on the guy, facing his feet, and inserts his penis into her vagina. The girl can either sit on her knees and shins, or can extend her feet out toward his feet. Since for most guys it is difficult to bend the penis straight out, the most common position for the girl is with her feet extended out or to the side. If the guy wants to spread his legs a little, the girl can accommodate him by moving her legs further apart as well.

The girl leans back and supports her weight on her hands, placed next to the guy’s chest, face, etc. The guy initiates the “in-and-out” through pelvic thrusts, which the girl can move against with similar pelvic thrusts (opposing those of the guy, of course). The girl basically is in control of the angle, depth, etc. the entire time.

Some girls require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, so it may be necessary (desirable) for the girl to masturbate herself using one hand, maintaining balance with the other. Alternatively, the girl can reach down and play with the guy’s balls/penis.

The guy can either hold on to the girl’s waist (or her ass even) to help control the thrusting, or can reach around to the girl’s chest and play with her boobs.

PROS:

For girls who are capable of G-Spot stimulation, this position affords *terrific* stimulation potential because the position forces the guy’s penis against the front wall of the vagina where the G-spot is located. The action of the guy’s cock massaging the G-Spot can result in an intensely pleasurable feeling.

The sensitive underside of the guy’s cock head rubs against the inside of the vagina, resulting in very intense pleasure for the guy as well.

If you have long hair, guys that love long hair will enjoy the girl’s hair hanging down in their faces.

CONS:

There’s no face-to-face contact, which for some is less intimate.

The position is a little difficult to master at first (but well worth the effort once you do! lol)

OTHER NOTES:

This position is *great* for anal sex as well. You can achieve deeper penetration with this position than just about any other. I don’t recommend it for first time anal, though, due to the incredible depth – generally not good for first-timers. It is easy to masturbate using a vibrator (including vaginal penetration) in this position as well while being anally penetrated. (And for those guys with GFs that won’t allow anal, this is a great position to fantasize about doing her in the ass!)

An alternative positioning has the girl resting on her knees/shins, and simply moving up and down on the guy’s penis.

Another variant involves the girl leaning toward the guy’s feet and moving up and down. Some guys might have a hard time with this if their penis achieves a hard, upright erection. In this position, the guy can also play with the girl’s asshole if desired (and she lets him!).