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The Missionary Position
The Missionary position is the basic sex position that almost everyone thinks of when they first hear the words “sex” or “sexual intercourse.”
HOW TO DO IT:
The girl lies on her back, with her legs spread far enough apart for her partner to get in between them.
The guy enters her, supporting his weight on his knees/thighs and hands (or elbows), and uses thrusts of his pelvis to move his cock in and out of her pussy. The guy could also rest his weight on the girl, but that tends to limit her ability to help control the thrusts.
There are a variety of things the girl can do with her body during this. She can just lay there with her legs outstretched (boring), but she can also bend her legs at the knees, or pull her legs back as close to her head as she can (either bending her legs or not). She can also wrap her legs around the guy. The further she pulls her legs back, the deeper the penis can go into the vagina.
If the girl has control of her Kegels (PC muscles) , and can learn to flex them in time with the guy’s thrusts, the guy can get off in a hurry. She can let her hands wander around various parts of his body – she can play with his nipples if he’s into that, or grab his waist and help control the guy’s thrusting.
One variant of this position has the girl keeping her legs closed, and the guy positioning his legs on the outside of hers. He enters her in the same manner. This causes the vagina to be tighter around the guy’s penis.
PROS:
This position is very easy to do, and allows for deep penetration (this can be bad, too, for the girl, esp. if the guy has a long penis).
The position allows for greater face-to-face contact – the two participants can see each other’s facial expressions, etc. It is very easy to kiss each other.
CONS:
Because of the in and out nature of the thrusts, there is generally little direct stimulation of the clit, which many girls need to achieve orgasm. This can be alleviated by having the guy thrust in and grind onto the girl’s pubic area a little bit! The girl can match or reciprocate the grinding to help things progress as well.
Since the guy is the one supporting all of his weight (unless he is resting on top of her), he can tire easily.
OTHER NOTES:
It is possible to do anal in this position, though it is not recommended for first-time anal due to the angle at which the penis will be entering the anus, and the likelihood of it slipping out (esp. with shorter penises).
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Last Updated ( Sunday, 15 July 2007 )
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